Why does everyone have an opinion on what it must feel like to be disabled?

Disability really is a paradox.

As a disabled woman, I often feel as though I just can’t win with being authentically me and living my life how I choose. I’m damned if I do and damned if I don’t.

If I tell the world that I’m happy and love my disabled body, I can often be met with scepticism, disbelief or ableism.

I’ve had…