Dear Alison,
I’m currently writing up my guest list for my wedding next year, in preparation for sending out save the dates, and I’m a bit torn over who to invite.
My partner and I want to keep our wedding relatively small, but I feel compelled to invite my university mates, even though we’re not as close as we once were. I’m mainly considering inviting them because I see them at parties and feel it would be awkward if I…